Processing XML files in SSIS and Update table in Sql Server

Hi,

I have two XML files ,accepted.XML and rejected.XML which have similar structure. One of the nodes of these files is CLIENT_CLAIM_NUM. IF the CLIENT_CLAIM_NUM ifs from accepted.xml I need to update SQL Server table with corresponding status as accepted.Same is the case with rejected.xml
My accepted.XML has the following structure:

<CLAIM>
  <CLIENT_CLAIM_NUM>1</CLIENT_CLAIM_NUM>
  <Vendor_ASSIGNED_CLAIM_NUM>434772</Vendor_ASSIGNED_CLAIM_NUM>
  <LASTNAME>#########</LASTNAME>
  <Date>2012-01-06T00:00:00</Date>
</CLAIM>

Also how can I send the count of claim numbers in each file by mail?

Thanks for your time and help.