Date Format in SQL setting in 2008 r2

I have SQL tabe with name as  Table1 and  date fileld also .

Now when I am selecting the Table1 data. I can see my date field of data showing as  yyyy-mm-dd  format.

How can i show the dd mm yyyy format default. Bcz otherwise I want to change my application lot of place.

I want to change this date format in date field of property.instead of using format function in sql.

AK

Select * from Bak where Dated='11-14-2013'    // this is working

Select * from Bak where Dated='14-11-2013' // this is not allowing system. 

Bak is View of table Table1